Agatha Nolen

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Can't Wait To See You Again

Why is this my #1 post? How should a Christian woman act in a relationship?  I was asked again this week why Christian women appear so desperate for a man and to marry. "Seems like a Christian woman would be happy and joyous serving God, single or married."

I'd enjoy hearing your thoughts on this topic, PLEASE ADD YOUR COMMENTS!

Blessings,

Agatha

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Here's the story:

I’m so happy we met last night. Can’t wait to see you again!” was the entire text message. Hmmm, I thought, “I wonder who this is from?” The answer was only moments away. “Message was for John; sent u by mistake, “ texted my friend, Louise.

But that text could have been from me because I was like that too. Pursuing almost every man I met so that I wouldn’t be lonely – I wouldn’t be alone. It would begin the same way. I’d meet a man and call the next day to say how much I enjoyed his company. I’d invite him to dinner, buy him gifts or even treat him to the movies. After all, I was a liberated female, right? Who says I had to wait for him to call?  I needed to be the aggressor in a relationship, to make all the decisions and call all the shots. I thought it was charming if he just sat back, acted passive, and let me come on to him. I was certain that if I didn’t chase him, another female would be nipping at his heels....

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